We need to work together to resolve family problems
Ng Ka-yan (4A)
Many Chinese parents keep a distance from their children. As time goes by, a weird feeling is produced. The children feel they cannot confide in their parents. They prefer to talk freely to their friends. When parents notice the problem, it is already too late.

Recently, a spate of children committed suicide because there was no proper communication among family members.

When teenagers run into problems, they feel confused and need help. If no one helps them, they will despair and become rebellious. They may play truant, take drugs, join the triad and run away from home. In extreme cases, they may end their lives.

I think there must be a close bond between parents and children. Parents should treat their children as friends, understand their problems and forgive their occasional mischief. Frequent conversations can help to create better understanding. Very often, misunderstanding leads to arguments, if not a worsening relationship.

My parents divorced when I was three. Fortunately, the broken marriage has not ruined my family. On the contrary, my sister and I love our family even more. We don't hide anything from each and other and solve problems together. A good relationship starts from good communication.

Student Standard 15th February 2000


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